http://nlphilia.net/2009/10/31/changing-states/#utm_source=feed&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=feed NLP Articles, News, Trainings, and Products Tue, 25 Oct 2011 15:46:01 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 http://nlphilia.net/2009/10/31/changing-states/comment-page-1/#comment-242 Pacing Negative Emotions - NLP Connections Sun, 13 Dec 2009 20:49:46 +0000 http://nlphilia.net/?p=361#comment-242 [...] What is your "usual" mood? You didn't ask me, but it's a great question and I'd like to answer it. I'm a pretty "flat affect" kind of guy, and I like it like that. It's the Taoist in me, I suppose. But when it's time for me to respond to someone's anger, I put myself in a curious state first. It's one of the states Jonathan Altfeld calls "hub states"... one from which it's fairly reasonable to go just about anywhere. Speaking of Jonathan, his new State Chaining CD set is exceptionally good. Here's my review. [...] [...] What is your "usual" mood? You didn't ask me, but it's a great question and I'd like to answer it. I'm a pretty "flat affect" kind of guy, and I like it like that. It's the Taoist in me, I suppose. But when it's time for me to respond to someone's anger, I put myself in a curious state first. It's one of the states Jonathan Altfeld calls "hub states"… one from which it's fairly reasonable to go just about anywhere. Speaking of Jonathan, his new State Chaining CD set is exceptionally good. Here's my review. [...]

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